The King's Gardeners Ministries
Reverend S. L. Gardner
Spokane Valley, Washington U.S.
- The Issue of Abuse -
- Why Do Men Batter Women? -
Many theories have been developed to explain why some men use violence against their partners. These theories include: family dysfunction, inadequate communication skills, provocation by women, stress, chemical dependency, lack of spirituality and economic hardship. These issues may be associated with battering of women, but they are not the causes. Removing these associated factors will not end men's violence against women. The batterer begins and continues his behavior because violence is an effective method for gaining and keeping control over another person and he usually does not suffer adverse consequences as a result of his behavior.
Historically, violence against women has not been treated as a "real" crime. This is evident in the lack of severe consequences, such as incarceration or economic penalties, for men guilty of battering their partners. Rarely are batterers ostracized in their communities, even if they are known to have physically assaulted their partners. Batterers come from all groups and backgrounds, and from all personality profiles. However, some characteristics fit a general profile of a batterer:
" A batterer objectifies
women. He does not see women as people. He does not respect women as a group.
Overall, he sees women as property or sexual objects.
" A batterer has
low self-esteem and feels powerless and ineffective in the world. He may appear
successful, but inside he feels inadequate.
" A batterer externalizes
the causes of his behavior. He blames his violence on circumstances such as
stress, his partner's behavior, a "bad day," alcohol or other factors.
" A batterer may
be pleasant and charming between periods of violence, and is often seen as
a "nice guy" to outsiders.
" Some behavioral
warning signs of a potential batterer include extreme jealousy, possessiveness,
a bad temper, unpredictability, cruelty to animals and verbal abusiveness.
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